Hello Phyllis Butler

So the other night, around some horrible early morning hour, Rich freaks out and rolls over and grabs hold of me. My reaction was one of really I was sleeping, so I ask him what's wrong and he says "look over by the lamp, what do you see?" I look in the dark and see a lamp books and paper, so I say "what am I suppose to see?" He gives some non descriptive answer and I go back to sleep. So in the actual time to wake up morning, I asked him about it and he said he saw a woman standing next to the lamp, and she was frilly. It scared him so much because when I was off in PA he saw a woman sitting at the end of our bed.
My landlord and I were having a chilly day play date today and I brought it up. She has mentioned the paranormal before so I was curious to know what she would say. She said "oh really, that's probably Phyllis". Apparently someone else has seen her too. The original owners were the ones who built the house, they built the basement and then over time built up and finished the rest of the house. So our room used to be Mr and Mrs Butlers. So my landlord feels that it is just Phyllis staying in the place that feels like home. When Rich got home from work I told him about it and he seemed pretty uncomfortable. I told him that next time he sees her he should be a little more polite and say "good evening Mrs Butler".
From my understanding my landlord has a friend or someone who is in tune to seeing, feeling, communicating with spirits. And this friend is the other person who has seen Phyllis. I think it's pretty interesting, but I prefer not to have any spooky nightly encounters, even if she is just a sweet old lady.